20th Wedding Anniversary
Today, June 22nd, 2022, would have been my 20th wedding anniversary.
Today is not a sad day for me. Today is a day to acknowledge on how far I have come.
Did I ever think I would be divorced? Nope.
Did I ever think I would feel this independent in my life? hmm…maybe?
As I look back, I can say I did everything I could to try to save my marriage. There would not be a friend, family member or therapist(s) that would say otherwise. I firmly believe in the institution of marriage. I believe you make a commitment and that in the lifetime of marriage you work through the easy and the hard times.
As I reflect on where I am, and to simplify my current thoughts, I realize that I would never feel as confident and whole if I was still married. In so many ways, I’ve been given a gift of freedom. I don’t say that lightly and only others that have been through the difficult process would understand. It has taken me the last few years to gain the confidence I have now and the openness to talk about it.
I love my life. I love my family, my friends, my kids that helped me through the most challenging moments of my life. They were my life raft when I needed it most and I am forever thankful.
Cheers to you that make it 20 years and beyond. I know that doesn’t come easily. I know you put in the work. I know you put in the time. I’m going to sit back and be thankful for my blessings over here.
XO
JessicaAnne
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